The past couple of weeks have been a whirlwind!
My days were packed back to back and consisted of limited sleep and
even some times limited food (only because I would forget to eat). I needed a break. When the opportunity
presented itself, I jumped on it and planned to take a few days
to hang out with my main guy, my son. Don't be misunderstood, I see
my son every day, we have our lunches and mini bonding moments during
my busy-ness; however, I wanted to hang out with him
uninterrupted and away from everything.
We packed our bags and took a
little drive to the Boca Beach Club, A Waldorf
Astoria Resort. What a lovely experience of just him
and I! We went to the beach, we ate, and did a little sightseeing.
No format and no agenda. I came back recharged and ready to dive back into
another busy, yet amazing wedding season. Even though I see my son everyday - What I
loved was that I got to hang out with him and really see him...I
can't put a price tag on that. It's worth far more to me than anything else
in the world.
As a single mompreneur, at times, I tend to get
caught up with everything that is happening with the business first and then I
revert to handling the basics when it comes to my mommy-ness: I make
sure he eats, brushes his teeth, goes to swimming and so forth and so on, not
necessarily in that order. Occasionally, we'll go to lunch,
dinner, see a movie. Although I'm physically in the house with him, I'm
not really home. I'm in my office dealing with clients, blog posts,
marketing and all of that other stuff. Sometimes it's difficult to switch from Cemone "Building
an Empire" to Cemone "Making Dinner for Darius".
Nevertheless, I make it happen. I'm grateful for every part of my
mompreneur journey, from having the opportunity to make my
own decisions and the ability to take breaks when I think
it is necessary. I answer to no one, and that's one of the best
parts of it all.
I say all of this to encourage each of my busy single
mompreneurs to take a day or two if you can; turn off the phone, computer, and
all other gadgets and just hang out with your
child/children. They see us working, and sometimes they don't want
to bother us because they know it's important, and it's their way of helping
us. Take my advice, take a break and enjoy the real loves of your
lives. I don't have to tell you this because you know it but it's worth
it!
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